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Jayden Koz
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Question for the culture
Now that Doja Cat, Ariana, Camila, Cardi B, Kehlani and Nicki Minaj, and Beyoncé have had number ones with songs about being sexy, wearing no clothes, fucking, cheating, etc
Can I please go back to singing about being embodied, feeling beautiful by being in love even if the relationship is not perfect, or dancing for money or whatever I want without being crucified or saying that I'm glamorizing abuse?
I'm fed up with female writers and alt singers saying that I glamorize abuse when in reality I'm just a glamorous person singing about the realities of what we are all now seeing are very prevalent emotionally abusive relationships all over the world
With all of the topics, women are finally allowed to explore I just want to say over the last ten years, I think it's pathetic that my minor lyrical exploration detailing my sometimes submissive or passive roles in my relationships has often made people say I've set women back hundreds of years
Let this be clear, I'm not, not a feminist but there has to be a place in feminism for women who look and act like me
The kind of woman who says no but men hear yes
The kind of women who are slated mercilessly for being their authentic, delicate selves
The kind of women who get their own stories and voices taken away from them by stronger women or by men who hate women
I've been honest and optimistic about the challenging relationships I've had
News flash!
That's just how it is for many women and that was sadly my experience up until the point that those records were made
So I just want to say it's been a long 10 years of bullshit reviews up until recently and I've learned a lot from them,
But I also feel it really paved the way for other women to stop putting on a happy face and to just be able to say whatever the hell they wanted to in their music
Unlike my experience where if I even expressed a note of sadness in my first two records I was deemed literally hysterical as though it was literally the 1920s
Anyways, none of this has anything to do about much but I'll be detailing some of my feelings in my next two books of poetry (mostly the second one) with Simon and Schuster
Yes, I'm still making personal reparations with the proceeds of the books to my choice of Native American foundations which I'm very happy about
And I'm sure there will be tinges of what I've been pondering in my new album that comes out September 5th
Thanks for reading
Happy quarantining
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